Building a family through surrogacy can be a very exciting but very emotional process at the same time. We had the opportunity to go over some questions with one of our intended parents to understand their surrogacy journey and to learn more from their perspective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you found out Autumn was going to be your gestational carrier, how did you feel? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n We were elated, but hesitant at first, we thought, and still do that she is too good to be true. Autumn is our second surrogate, our first one was not comfortable carrying through COVID times and we were hesitant at first, scared she would come to the same conclusion. However, once we got to know Autumn, we quickly discovered she was meant for us, we were elated. She has been wonderful in these uncertain times, and we couldn\u2019t imagine being on this journey with anyone else but her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n What has been the best part of the journey so far?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n January 31, 2021, when Autumn and I did our first (two) pregnancy tests, followed by February 3rd, 2021 when we had our first confirmation with my husband of a heartbeat. That day is also significant because it\u2019s the birthday of the person who saved my life when I went into cardiac arrest at the age of 8. The best part of the journey is knowing that the baby will be here in October or late September.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You\u2019ve become friends with Autumn through this process. What would you say are her best characteristics?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Autumn is selfless, often pointing out that she is the \u201coven\u201d and it\u2019s not her baby. She goes out of her way to make sure I know I\u2019m the mom and respects the decisions we make for the baby. She has a big heart and is very respectful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tell us a little about the first doctor\u2019s appointment you and your husband were able to attend. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n It was emotional and so special, as we had only been able to attend the prior appointments via Zoom, while with the IVF clinic. When we transferred to the OBGYN, the doctor had learned we had not been to an appointment yet and scheduled an ultrasound just so we could see our baby on the ultrasound for the first time during the appointment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n What does Autumn and her willingness to become your gestational carrier mean to you? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n There are no words, only a flood of emotions and gratitude. Due to my medical history (heart transplant at age 8, followed by lifetime antirejection medicines), I am not able to safely carry a baby without risk to my life and compromising the health of the baby who would be subject to the harsh medications I take to prevent organ rejection,<\/p>\n\n\n\n